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Stop giving them the benefit of the doubt in dating
Women are often taught to give people the benefit of the doubt, especially in dating—but that mindset can cost you time, energy, and emotional peace. When someone is inconsistent, distant, or showing signs that they’re not all in, it’s time to stop making excuses. Pay attention to how they show up and trust yourself to walk away if things aren’t moving in the direction you want. Read on for more!
You can’t predict the future in dating
Dating can stir up all kinds of “what if” questions—What if the age gap becomes a problem? What if I never fit into his life with his kids? What if he starts drinking again?
The truth is: you don’t know, and you can’t know. Relationships don’t come with guarantees. Read on to learn how to stop overanalyzing the future and start making empowered dating decisions right now.
Nine tips for dating success as a single mom
Dating as a single mom can feel like an impossible puzzle—between packed schedules, childcare logistics, and sheer exhaustion, it’s hard to even think about putting yourself out there. But it is possible. In this post, I’m sharing 9 real-world tips to help you date on your time, your terms, and without the guilt, overwhelm, or burnout. Because you’re a woman, not just a mom.
Why you shouldn’t spend hours on the phone before meeting
Spending hours on the phone before meeting someone might feel like a great way to build a connection—but in reality, you’re just creating an illusion of intimacy. You don’t know this person yet, and long conversations can lead to filling in the gaps with who you want them to be. Here’s what to do instead.
Are you seeing who they are or who you want them to be?
When dating, it’s easy to fill in the gaps with who you want someone to be instead of seeing them for who they actually are. You ask a few questions, hear what you like, and suddenly your mind starts building a whole story about them. But here’s the truth: you can’t know who someone truly is until they show you. Here’s what to do instead.
The only insurance against bad dates is you
Dating can feel like a gamble, and it’s tempting to look for ways to guarantee a good outcome. But here’s the truth—there’s no insurance for dating. No amount of checklists, social media polls, or background details will predict whether someone is a great match. Some things you just can’t know until you know them. The real key? Trusting yourself to recognize what works, what doesn’t, and adjusting as you go.
Ghosting happens-Here’s what to do when it happens to you
If you've been ghosted, I know how frustrating it can be. The silence, the confusion, the endless Why?!—but here’s the truth: ghosting is not about you. Instead of wasting energy wondering what went wrong, I’ll show you how to reframe ghosting so you can keep move forward with confidence on your dating journey.
The relationship equation: It’s not just about finding someone
Dating isn’t just about finding the right person—it’s about finding the right relationship. Before jumping in, you need clarity on three key factors: what you want for yourself, what you want in a partner, and what kind of relationship you actually want. This simple equation will change the way you date.
How dating slow can help you find the right person faster
Rushing into relationships can lead to disappointment, stress and anxiety. Learn how slow dating can actually help you find the right match faster, build meaningful connections, and date with confidence.
Don’t outsource your dating dilemmas
Are you turning to strangers on the internet for relationship advice? Learn why trusting yourself is the key to making confident dating decisions and building healthier relationships.
Why crowdsourcing your dating choices is a bad idea (and what to do instead)
Asking strangers on the internet whether you should date someone is rarely helpful. Learn why trusting your own preferences leads to healthier connections—and how to embrace them confidently—no permission from strangers on the internet required!
Master the first 45-90 days of dating for better relationships
The first 45-90 days of dating should be about gathering information and taking things slow. Learn how to build meaningful connections by pacing yourself and focusing on what truly matters in the early stages of dating without getting overly attached too quickly.
Why I don’t kiss on the first date
First dates aren’t for kissing. They are for discovering if this is someone you might want to kiss in the future. Learn why holding off on physical intimacy can lead to more meaningful relationships.
Why dating feels exhausting (and how to make it better)
Dating after divorce or a breakup can feel overwhelming. But what if you could reframe the process and take back control? In this post, I’ll show you how to approach dating in a way that feels empowering and enjoyable. No exhaustion required!
Why asking, “Why do they act that way?” won’t help you (and what will)
Ever wondered why someone behaves in a puzzling way and turned to friends or the internet for answers? If so, you’re not alone. Before you get caught in the cycle of seeking explanations, consider this: there might be a more empowering approach. Discover why asking others might not be the best strategy and what you can do instead. Read on to learn more!
Are you tired of carrying the conversation?
If you feel like you’re always the one asking questions on dating apps or in person meetups - you might be getting to know someone who isn’t getting to know you. What to do about it? Read on for my approach…
The first two questions I always ask in dating
Discover the essential dating strategies of going slow and being direct to ensure meaningful connections. Learn two key questions to ask early in dating conversations to help weed out unsuitable matches, so you can invest your dating time wisely. Find out why understanding someone's recent relationship status and their proximity is crucial for successful dating.
Should you hire a matchmaker?
While a matchmaker can save you the initial hassle of sorting through potential dates, it's essential not to hand over all your dating decisions to a matchmaker. They make introductions, but ultimately, you're the one who knows what kind of connection feels right for you.
Don’t skip ‘dating’ on the way to a relationship
Are you guilty of rushing into relationships without getting to know someone first? One of the biggest mistakes I see women making when dating: Skipping the dating part and going right to a relationship. If you are dating to find a relationship, remember you still need to… date. Slow down and savor the journey of dating.
How would you date differently if you knew your person was coming?
Learn how a mindful approach to dating can transform your journey and lead you to 'The One.' (Hint: You might have to date a lot of ‘Not The Ones’ along the way.)