Ghosting happens-Here’s what to do when it happens to you

If you've been actively dating for any length of time, you've probably experienced ghosting. And when someone disappears without a word, you might wonder:

🤔 Why did they do that? 

🤔 Why can't people just communicate like adults?

🤔 What is wrong with me that someone would ghost me? 

 To put it simply:

✅ It doesn't matter.

✅ It's all part of the process. 

✅ It's not you, it's them.

Ghosting Is Not a Reflection of You

The fact is ghosting has become common. People disappear for all kinds of reasons—lack of emotional maturity, fear of confrontation, or just plain thoughtlessness. None of that has anything to do with you or your worth. 

This is exactly why I tell people: Don’t get too excited about anyone too quickly. When you invest too much, too soon, you’re setting yourself up for unnecessary disappointment.

What To Do Instead

Here’s the reality: If they ghosted, they saved you time. You’re dodging someone who either wasn’t emotionally available or wasn’t the right fit. Either way, it’s a blessing.

Instead of getting stuck wondering “Why?”, shift your mindset to:

💖 That person wasn’t right for me. 

💖 This wasn't about me.

💖 I want someone who will communicate like an adult.

💖 This is just part of the process.

💖 I am still open to giving and receiving love with the right person. 

And never let someone’s bad behavior convince you to stop dating altogether. When you do that, you’re giving someone else power over your love life.

Just remember—this is all part of the process.

Are You Ready to Date Without the Anxiety?

Ghosting doesn’t have to wreck your confidence. 👻  If you’re tired of feeling frustrated and want to date with ease, let’s talk.  👉🏻Schedule a call with me here. 

I can help you with that!