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What is shame and what can you do about it?
What is shame? It is the feeling of distress that stems from believing there is a ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ way to do something and that you are doing it wrong. This is not a helpful emotion. Here’s what to do instead.
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Why are you in a rush to get into a dating relationship?
Why do women often rush into dating relationships? We don’t do this with friends or work colleagues. Only in dating do we think the connection should be instant or it might not work. I disagree and here’s how I slow things down.
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Confusion is a lie
You think you’re confused. Confusion makes you feel stuck and unable to make a decision. You’re not confused, you’re scared. Here’s what’s really going on.
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Why asking ‘why?’ is not a helpful question
Women spend a lot of time wondering ‘why?’ a guy did or didn’t do something. This is never a helpful question because it only leads to rumination and feeling stuck - not any good answers.
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An abridged list of things I (think I) am bad at and why I want to share them with you
Do you spend a lot of time thinking about allll the things you are bad at or doing wrong? Here’s my list. And a few things I think I am doing right!
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Are you ‘dating’ someone you’re not actually DATING?
Are you in an intimate relationship with someone that feels like dating… but you’re not actually DATING? See why I think that is a bad idea.
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Should I send a follow up text?
Wondering if you should send a follow-up text after a first date? Here’s my take…
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How Can it Be EASY?
What are you making more complicated than it needs to be? Ask yourself, “How can this be easy?” Then do that!
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