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Why crowdsourcing your dating choices is a bad idea (and what to do instead)
Asking strangers on the internet whether you should date someone is rarely helpful. Learn why trusting your own preferences leads to healthier connections—and how to embrace them confidently—no permission from strangers on the internet required!
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Master the first 45-90 days of dating for better relationships
The first 45-90 days of dating should be about gathering information and taking things slow. Learn how to build meaningful connections by pacing yourself and focusing on what truly matters in the early stages of dating without getting overly attached too quickly.
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Why I don’t kiss on the first date
First dates aren’t for kissing. They are for discovering if this is someone you might want to kiss in the future. Learn why holding off on physical intimacy can lead to more meaningful relationships.
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Why dating feels exhausting (and how to make it better)
Dating after divorce or a breakup can feel overwhelming. But what if you could reframe the process and take back control? In this post, I’ll show you how to approach dating in a way that feels empowering and enjoyable. No exhaustion required!