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Master the first 45-90 days of dating for better relationships
The first 45-90 days of dating should be about gathering information and taking things slow. Learn how to build meaningful connections by pacing yourself and focusing on what truly matters in the early stages of dating without getting overly attached too quickly.
Why I don’t kiss on the first date
First dates aren’t for kissing. They are for discovering if this is someone you might want to kiss in the future. Learn why holding off on physical intimacy can lead to more meaningful relationships.
On sex, pleasure and intimacy
Women have been taught conflicting things about sex. We were warned about the dangers of having sex, but also told it’s our job to attract men who want to have it with us. Women are also taught that our desire is only responsive to a man’s. And only by being desired by someone else should women feel sexual arousal of our own. Seeing your body only in service to someone else means many women don’t even know what they like or enjoy. We think we need to find the right partner to take us to the magical place of orgasm, not recognizing we can create the thoughts and feelings of sexual pleasure on our own.
Men only want ONE thing…
Raise your hand if you've ever thought, said out loud, or heard someone say, “Men only want SEX!” I see this sentiment shared online so often and it had me wondering… so what? So what if some men are only out there looking for sex? When you get upset that someone you had sex with no longer wants to date you, you completely give up your power as a woman. As Empowered Women, we don't participate in activities with other people and then get mad at them that we participated in those activities.